What is self love?
Self-love defined as “love of self” or “regard for one’s own happiness or advantage” has both been conceptualized as a basic human necessity and as a moral flaw, akin to vanity and selfishness, synonymous with amour propre, conceit, conceitedness .
Why we should love ourselves first?
SELF LOVE Or What is self love
Love we do with ourselves .
Because hey! Why not?
so let’s talk about how you constantly lack your confidence being in a toxic relationship which we think is the only relationship which we will have forever, so baby girl chill out you worth more than that.
Why do people love others without loving oneself ?
Just because its a trend that you have to be in relationship. Is it?
Or you really love that person or that person really loves you?
If that person really loves you why don’t he support you in the things which you want to do.
Being possessive and giving boundaries are two different things which we need to understand . it sounds like same but there is huge difference in that.
Being possessive is okay , its natural that when you love a person you will be possessive about them .
But why to control them, we need to understand that if we love that person they have dreams too , why don’t you support them for that, why you give all those threat to leave them if they want to do what they want.
Being in relationship doesn’t mean you will forget that your partner has their own life too. Let them do what they want , be confident that you can control the situation if they gets in any kind of problem.
But does this happen?
The answer is ‘NO’!
So ask yourself are you in a “perfect relationship”?
The main thing is that we don’t love our self before loving anyone else.
And that makes relationship complicated .
Have patience you will find your MR. PERFECT or MISS PERFECT.
Tough their is nothing called perfection but when you will find a person who will support you love you, will teach you to love yourself first, that day that person will be perfect for you.
Don’t think much it’s one life enjoy yourself , love yourself , explore yourself.
You will find your forever when the perfect time will come.
Do not rush take your time.
Take decision you have never taken before do not pressurise yourself.
Love yourself first before loving other, and that’s the mantra of life.