Open any beauty magazine and you’ll see article upon article about what women want in relationships and how to get that. But there’s rarely a space for men to express their relationship needs.
1. To feel like your hero
We don’t want to be your Robert Downey. And want to be your Superman. We want you to see us as leaping tall buildings in a single bound and catching bullets. We want to carry you in our arms and show you the world. Or at least feel that way. And I know it’s our job to get there, but nothing gives us more strength than a woman who creates a space that makes us feel invincible. If you make us feel invincible, we’ll make you feel like you’re the most beautiful creature on this planet.
Respect From Both End
Show us through your actions that we respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies, and minds. we don’t have to agree with all that we say or do anything, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as we would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.
2. Acceptance Of What We Are
There’s a new T-shirt trending in Los Angeles titled “Love Me Anyways.” They should make them for men. Because we NEED to feel that when we stack the dishes in the dishwasher like a five year-old, say the wrong thing in front of your friends, leave the toilet seat up, get too logical, forget something you’ve said a thousand times, that you love us anyways. Because inside every man is a boy who forgets he’s a man sometimes. And every boy gets into things, not because he’s bad but because he’s got a curious mind and a short attention span.
Unconditional support from our girl is what will snap us out of our boyish behavior and inject us with a desire to be a stronger man. Only when you accept us as we are, who we are, will we want to become someone better.
3. Blinders Sex
There’s sex. Then there’s blinders sex, the kind of sex that gives you blinders, keeps your eyes forward and intentions straight when you’re out in the world. Let’s face it. Men are going to look. They’re like squirrels. They get distracted by shiny things. But there’s a difference between noticing and wanting. Blinders sex gets men to say, “Yeah, she may be pretty but I would never trade in what I have for anything else.”
Blinders sex isn’t just good sex. But remember that there are four bases to cover in the bedroom, not just one. Try stopping at each base instead of being so focused on the home run — believe us, we’ll thank you for it!
Likewise, remember small physical touches like massages. One can never, ever, have too many shoulder rubs. And scratching our heads is pretty great, too.
4. Sweat ( intimate partner )
There’s nothing sexier than working out with your intimate partner. Watching you sweat and work on your body only encourages us to work on ours as well. We get to see the raw and real you, a different type of naked. Now, if we do this together, we’re in the act of building something, a lifestyle. We’re not just talking. We’re doing. And that’s hot.
5. Not to be left in the dark
So many girls don’t tell their men how they feel because they don’t want to rock the boat. Or they’re afraid. The truth is when you don’t express yourself, you leave us in the dark. We don’t really know the truth of you. You are prepackaging and presenting parts of your life instead of doing your whole life with us. Couples grow and get stronger overcoming adversity, not by doing life separately. Know that every time you hold things in, you are building walls inside the sacred space of the relationship. No, we don’t want you to verbally vomit on us. But believe it or not, we really do want to know who you truly are.
6.Guys also want to be pampered
Though guys try to put on a macho image, and love baby-ing their sweethearts,Babu,Sona it’s not like they don’t love to be pampered themselves! A surprise gift, a relaxing massage, a loving gesture are all welcome and much appreciated.
7.He wants patience in a relationship
No man is perfect. He may still not be the kind of man you want. As his girlfriend, he will appreciate the fact that you are patient in helping him grow and become the best version that he would ever be. He will not turn to be the person that you have always desired overnight. He will need you to be there for him. The man will need your patience and encouragement in order to transform in to the kind of person that you have always needed. This will be a good reason for him to commit to you.